I know I have to put on a strong front for the family. I have to be responsible and make sure all the funeral plans go well. But, frankly, I'm devastated. I miss you so much. You were looking forward to the birth of my son. You were looking forward to Omugwo. You kept telling me how you can't wait to carry him and shower him with gifts. It breaks my heart to knowing that it will never happen. To everyone else you were Madam, Ada Mazi, Big Aunty. To me, you were 'Mummy'!! The best mom ever. You taught me what it means to give. You embodied love and generosity. You were my mother but also a mother to so many others. I know not one person that has ever spoken ill of you. I love you so much. I will tell my kids about you. I will hang pictures of you everywhere - You and dad. You will never be forgotten.